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Are you in a mood? Do you feel like you’ve been kept in the rusty old dungeon for a while and you want to release yourself to the world?

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Touchy topic? Sometimes, during our adulting life, we get caught up in the reality of work. We literally spend most of our waking hours consuming numbers, tasks, and brain activity that we don’t have time to take care of ourselves let alone our inner sluts.

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Yes, we all have our inner sluts. Maybe you’re too tired that when you have time you just want to sleep, watch tv, take a long bath. This is all good and important but let’s not forget to take care of another important thing. Your ‘She’.

You can give her a name as you want but ‘she’ needs to be taken care of as well. You probably use to do this all the time. It’s when you get all dressed up with your girls to go to the club or to brunch or any excuse to go out just to dress nice and dolled up. We might not be preying on men, or maybe (that’s also alright) but we get all dressed up to boost ourselves and let our inner slut run the show for a while.

Ok, to be more realistic, maybe we can’t be going out and maybe we don’t want to but you can still release your inner slut within your own home. Dress a little sexier or even walk around naked for some time, see how that feels like. Maybe get caught by your partner and have a little afternoon delight. You do you, boo boo!

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You see, if you don’t, soon or later that slut of yours will want to come out from hiding. If you don’t give her the time when it’s appropriate then she might sneak out when you least expected and that can be dangerous. She might be doing things she knows she shouldn’t. Or you could turn into a grumpy old cat, you choose.

Our inner slut is not a bad or malicious thing. It is just in our most sexual form exploring the world. When you are single, that person gets to come out more but once you are in a relationship or marriage, you might forget to let her out more than she’s used to. Maybe you might not even feel like it but trust me, it wants out!

So here’s the deal. If you are in a relationship and you feel like your inner slut wants to come out, get dressed up, put on some smoking hot outfit and some make-up, and go to town. Even if it means doing it at home and just jumping on your partner for no good reason, not that there needs to be one. He or she will appreciate it!

When you can’t seem to find an appropriate time for your inner slut goddess to shine then you make time because her energy is strong. If you feel like you’ve been uninspired, that you are in a brain fart or just bored out of your mind. Take my advice as you please, dress up that slutty goddess and PLAY!
Sexy is in the mind of the beholder! Don’t keep her in the dungeon for too long…

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Rich Kantita aka Kantita Leangcharoenpong aka Kantita Hauchecorne (my name on french documents) aka Tita, Rich... It's a long story. Third Culture kid. Lived and was born in Germany. Lived in Thailand, Myanmar, China, the Philippines, Spain, and France. I love to talk about life because let's face it, everything is LIFE! Read more on the About page... But it would be more fun for you to find out my friends’ descriptions of me! Here goes… (I’ve got amazing friends, Thank you guys!) Art Jeffrey, Kustom Jewellery – “ClassicalRed is gonna give it to ya! Rich with attitude!” Nandini Sehgal @dinifitmind - “The epitome of the phrase ‘work hard, play hard. This girl knows how to live a balanced life, because YOLO!” @pavita.u – “A nerd when necessary, a rebellious mind at some point, a hopeless romantic person with a fear of commitment, aka. A goddamn complicated person.” Opp @opp.timist – “So sweet and spicy! – Nope, I’m not talking about my favorite dish, I’m talking about my favorite ‘Rich’!” @artsynats – “Wise, witty, and a workaholic, ClassicalRed is spicy chic in real life. She’s not only my best friend but also my trusted lifestyle consultant.” Prim @omgitsprim - “In today's world where everything is muddled with superfluous bullshit and fake compliments, rich (or classicalred, you choose) will give you that dose of much-needed bluntness and honesty. Like when you're not sure if the jeans you have on look fat on you, she'll tell you they do.”

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