We don’t all face the same problem but for some of us who have real trust issues and are always afraid of their partner cheating on them even though you completely trust that your partner wouldn’t but because we know human nature and how weak one can be, we worry.
The root of my trust issue is because I’ve encountered a lot of men. Men who have girlfriends and would still try to pursue me, men who know that we have a girl code and would still try or even men who are friends with their friends girlfriend and would still try to pursue them. So, with the existence of these men, it surely makes it hard for me to believe that there are any loyal men out there. But at the same time I cannot allow myself to be distrusting to someone I know I can commit to, so here’s how I deal with my trust issue…
I keep reminding myself that man or woman, we are human beings. We are not the same but we can conditioned the same. If I can resist temptation and be a loyal person, I know that someone out there will be able to as well.
Things happen for a reason, which is why cheating is never an option but a choice. A choice that you will have to live with the consequences of your action. I don’t believe in second chances in the sense that once that trust is cracked or broken, believe me that it can never be whole again, so before you risk it make sure you can live with the consequences. And if you don’t have the capability to evaluate your actions and judgment then you aren’t mature enough for anything real.
The universe will always test us, especially when you are in love. Don’t ever think that you are the only one who faces issues and temptations. The universe is fair and puts everyone on different tests. Your goal is to get through them and become a better and stronger person. If you fail, then you are not ready for something great and worthwhile.
Love is not easy and sometimes some people are afraid of something good and they try to sabotage it but only the tough can have the real good kind of love. Because no matter what they do not give up and the universe loves a stubborn heart.
So to you people out there who’s trying to trust again, as long as you are a good person and you stick to your moral, there will be someone up to your standard! This I know for sure.
