Can People Change?

The idea that people can’t change is a false ideology. People CAN change. It might not take a day or two. It probably would take months of hard work. If we are able to develop new habits by enforcing it on a daily basis then we can change our behavior the way we want it to be and reprogram ourselves. All you need is a bit of faith and a whole lot of responsibility. So the fact is not that people can’t change, it’s if they want to change.

Change is hard, which is why we say that people often don’t change but it’s not impossible. It’s not like you’re trying to grow a new limb. You are changing your bad behavior or habits for a better life. Why is that a bad thing? People should stop saying that people can’t change because what you are doing is that you’re unconsciously preventing yourself from it by saying so.

The world would be in a much decent and nicer place we we just change that one mentally. We would put in more effort to save the environment, to try harder to fix a relationship, to lead a healthier lifestyle. It starts with a believe and motivation for change and from then just take it one step at a time.

Good change is a good thing and should be encouraged. We evolved from change. If someone you love tells you that you need to change, it’s not an insult. They care enough to want better things for you. Only people who love you will say that. People who could care less for you would want you to stay the same to feed their ego or control you.

Change is the thing we can count on. And if you haven’t changed lately then you might be feeling a bit bored with your life, kind of mundane or even depress.

So, embrace change and better things will come!