Honestly, it seems like we have unrealistic expectations in terms of relationship but in truth it is really quite simple. Yes, ironically underneath these simplicity lies the unbearable fact that its occurrence (of finding our soulmate) is very unpredictable, probably once in a lifetime and it takes a huge amount of patience.
Look, aside from the physical attraction that catches our attention from the first few seconds of meeting someone and evaluating whether they can be the father of your child, the rest is about chemistry which only happens after communication, affection and understanding. It’s not mad science to look for the person we like because we should know what we want/like. For those who still can’t figure that part out, there’s no point looking for your match because until you find yourself, you cannot find our other half when your half is not whole. So,…
It is really quite simple.
We want someone who shares and encourages our dreams, hopes and aspirations.
We want someone who inspires us.
We want someone who makes us mad but also incredibly hard to stay mad at.
We want someone who understands us without many words.
We want someone who would go beyond their ways for our happiness.
We want someone who includes us in their daily life.
We want someone who we do not need but who we want desperate to spend time with.
We want someone who changes us for the better, who makes you like you more.
We want someone who would fight for because the thought without you is unacceptable.
We want someone who we love and love us in return.
We all want similar things but within all that, connections only occur on its own. So I guess, the point is to stop trying so hard to look for that someone because no matter how hard you try, the fraction of its occurrence is one in a hundred. So sit back and enjoy your movie. If you are someone like me who likes to skip parts of the movie when it gets boring or annoying, then you are up for a big frustration cause unlike the flat screen, you cannot forward life.
