Be careful of the choices you make because you will have to live with it forever. Don’t let the fear of the future change your course of action towards what is right in your heart.
Take your time…
Recently I just realized I haven’t watched “13 on going 30” yet (Thank you Netflix for the upload) and not only did I now understood Ariana Grande’s “Thank you, next” music video scene now, the movie is a good reminder to those who wish they could turn back time despite the ending of the movie… Ya Can’t.
Life is about making mistakes but you have to know and understand the risk you are taking. Be willing to learn and make mistakes but within the goodness of your heart and be truthful. If the risk is within good reason and as long as you’ve made your choice, even if it’s a mistake, you can live with it and learn from it. But if you make mistakes from fear or through the manipulation of others then you are taking other people risks and fears and executing it for them and that’s just a waste of time.
Whatever your life looks like right now, never blame anyone else for the outcome because you’ve made all the choices and the decisions that led up to this. If you are over 18, you cannot blame your parents for whatever problems you are having. It is not cute. You are the owner of your problem and you have a choice on how to deal with it.
You have the be the main character of your story. Analyze your character. What made you react the way you did and was it a good judgement? You are an evolving character that through time will reach different climax and constant and resolutions. The story hasn’t ended yet as long as you are breathing so don’t forget that and continue with your story. You live, you learn.
Don’t think about the future too much. Future changes as we move and sleep each night. The things you plan for last week might have happened or might have changed but consequences live on. The actions you made in the past makes your present the reality. The goodness you’ve done will show result some day but so does the bad. We are all just catching up to our own doings. So be careful.
It applies to how you handle life in every aspect. How you react to a fight will determined the outcome of it. It even applies to our world today with pollution and environmental problems we’re encountering now. So even if you don’t believe in something, just keep doing the right thing. Even if you don’t believe in “Climate Change”, if you could stop using plastic because it’s wasteful or because recycling is common sense then just do it. Do the right thing. You don’t have to believe in anything. You just have to be good.
We all regret the hurtful things we say when in rage. We all wish we understand things more than we did. So, just do it. Take your time, take a deep breathe and don’t say something you will regret or do things we will regret. Life will force you to have those feelings even without your own doings. Make the mistakes that you wouldn’t mind spending time fixing. Cause those will be the best lessons you’ll ever learn.
